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Wondering if you need Debt Consolidation is usually a sign that you mat need some form of debt relief, be it Debt Consolidation, Debt Settlement or a form of Credit Counseling. There's an old saying in recovery circles that says "If you are sitting in an AA meeting, wondering if you are an alcoholic, you probably are." The same may be true if you are wondering if you need debt consolidation. Chances are, you are thinking about it for a reason. It is highly doubtful that someone sitting in a very healthy financial situation will take time out of their day wishing they had more in their bank account unless they are very greedy! However, just as with our friend who drinks too much will find a better life in recovery- so too can those who are in too much debt find recovery of a different type- personal financial freedom. Luckily, in both cases, there is a solution. So, do you, in fact need debt consolidation? Let's take a look at some of the common symptoms of an unhealthy financial situation" No Expendable Income After Bills are PaidWorking to live and living to work. When you cannot define yourself by anything other than working and paying bills and nothing else, unless it is a short term remedy, you are missing out on the American Dream. Unfortunately too many of us live this exact type of existence. Not able to contribute any money for savingsWhether it is putting money aside for a rainy day (a necessity), saving for a new car, a new home or children's college, living without savings is basically like living on borrowed time. It can be a hopeless feeling of frustrating when we can look years into our future and imagine ourselves in the exact same situation we are in right now. Savings, even a little at a time, is important to feel secure and comfortable. Rarely or never paying with cashUsing credit cards to pay our basic living expenses will eventually catch up to us. Eventually the balances will cause the minimum payments to be too high to pay off, thus causing the snowball effect of higher interest rates, then higher payments, then late payments, then even higher interest rates and higher payments. At some point your expenses will overtake your income and you will be completely burdened with debt. Living Paycheck to PaycheckMany salaried or hourly worker employees get into to trouble because of a temporary financial set back. If the type of job is not one that allows overtime or extra commission, where you can pick up extra money, one small bump in the road can put you in trouble for months, even years. Most people actually live paycheck to paycheck, which is very dangerous when something unexpected comes along such as a a medical/health issue, car expense etc). And of course since the paycheck is always the same, once you get behind you can't get caught up. Staying sick/not going to the doctorIt's one thing to ride out a common cold or flu for a week or two. It's another to remain sick because we cannot afford to take ourselves to a doctor because of a lack of funds or health insurance. This is a very common issue in households were money is tight. Oftentimes it can be a self perpetuating problem as missing work being sick will cause even more larger money issues next month. Feelings of depression or anxietyOur minds are wondrous mechanisms for telling our physical bodies that something is wrong. Depression and anxiety don't come out of nowhere and the catalyst is often times fear of financial insecurity. People may overlook these mental symptoms or discount them as fatigue or other issues (or ignore them). Our minds and bodies are built to survive, when there is a threat to our survival they will try to tell us to pay attention to that threat. This materializes in depression and other disorders which weren't there before. If you have been feeling unmotivated, uninspired, bored, tired, irritable, or sad you may be depressed over money and not know it. Fighting with your spouseMoney is the number one issue that couples argue over. Lack of Money is even worse! In may households, one of the spouses handles the finances. When things go bad financially there may arise a lot of resentment. The bill handler will blame the breadwinner for not making enough, the breadwinner will blame the bill handler for not doing a better job handing the money, and many arguments will ensue. This is looking at the symptoms of the problem, not the problem itself. Unable to enjoy entertainmentDid you know that in many European countries workers take an entire month off from work? As ridiculous as this sounds to our American ears, statistics show that Europeans live happier, healthy and are general more fulfilled in life than their American counterparts. In fact, on average Americans take 8.5 vacation days a year. Unfortunately that statistic is misleading. It is an average based on our entire work force, which means while some of us take 2 weeks, some of us take none at all. Time to ourselves, and with our familes is precious time that all should be entitled to. Vacation should not be just a luxury. Our parents took vacations even though they may have had only blue collar jobs, remember the annual family trip to Lake Chigawaloo, we should be able to as well. Entertaining "get rich quick" schemes or "work from home" money making plansThere is a reason these types are products are appealing to you. The actors in the commercials remind you of you! "Last month we made such and such. Now We are Debt Free." The companies selling these products know their target audience very well. People who are having financial problems will always be more inclined to let reason slip out of their decision making and get sold on these ideas out of desperation. Unfortunately, the truth disclosure that states the actual success story you are seeing is based on success rates of about 1%, and is buried at the bottom of the screen and almost impossible to see. Do I Need Debt Consolidation? |